I have been hesitating to share this story. I hope it is not shared with the widow and family. They have been through enough. I’m not going to tag anything to do with that good man, because anybody looking for information about him doesn’t need to read this. Because a great deal of this blog, […]
Stop blaming yourself…
I keep finding new things to discuss in this whole ending of an affair. It keeps being brought to my attention how stupid some of his victims feel. They are embarrassed. They are ashamed. I’m not. Something to keep in mind and just embrace, is that you are not stupid for falling for anything a […]
Sociopaths and Narcissists.
In a couple previous posts I mentioned my sister, Shannon. There is a part of her story that I wanted to share right now because it correlates with recent events and discussion. After Shannon was divorced from the dick, she attracted another equally offensive pile of dung. Actually, this one was worse. Yeah, I was […]
Previews of Coming Events
Well, my blogging has moved from self-help (cuz, I needed to just say some stuff and he wasn’t going to hear it), to trying to help others avoid this situation with him particularly, as well as others. Vicki had said she was concerned about his lying about being fixed when he wasn’t. I was more […]
It must be a Marvel Movie!
Because after the credits, there’s more!! I told ya’ll that the girlfriend, now ex, contacted me via message on Facebook. I did not respond for quite some time because I thought that it would just open up a wound and what good does that do me? However, she had a LOT to say and I […]
It is what it is…
Ok, so many of you are aware that the non-relationship ended quite badly. By that I mean, as it was already fizzling and I just couldn’t ignore or deny my gut feelings anymore, I got a simple text from Steven that sounded pretty final. Not bad… just done. And I was fine with that. It […]
Final Credits
So, the movie is over. Not sure if it was a romance or adventure comedy. Possibly a horror flick. Turns out my gut was more accurate than my heart was. I had a moment, this afternoon, where I was hurting again but then I moved out of it. I tried to see the whole thing […]
The Incongruity of My Current Situation
It’s 4AM. As usual, I’m up…. and unfortunately as is also usual, I’m second guessing. I’m not really second-guessing him or his intentions. I’m second-guessing my own and their incongruity with reality. That’s a big word at 4AM. Incongruity. 5 syllables. I’m saying to myself that I’ve been lacking sleep and that puts me in […]
